This episode we're breaking down one of the most ambitious intimacy scenes ever put on television.

Ariel and Morgan are diving into Sens8, the Wachowskis' globe-spanning Sci-Fi drama that somehow turns a psychic orgy into one of the most sensual scenes we've ever covered.

From gym workouts and hot tubs to morning cuddles and group intimacy across continents, we're unpacking what makes this sequence so memorable and why it still feels unlike anything else on TV.

We get into it all:

• The surprisingly complicated consent questions that come with sharing other people's experiences
• The challenge of choreographing a massive multi-location orgy without rehearsal
• The actor's experiences during the filming process
• The editing and cinematography choices that make all of it feel seamless and stunning

Plus: German bathhouses, terrible bench press form, psychic horny emergencies, Britney Spears music video comparisons, and an extended discussion about what happens if someone in your cluster decides to have sex during your grandmother's funeral.

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Our reaction covers the Orgy Scene in Season 1 Episode 6 (Demons): 32:08-39:32.
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CREDITS — SENS8 (S1E6 "Demons")
Creators: Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski; J. Michael StraczynskiDirectors: Lana Wachowski; Lilly WachowskiWriters: Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski; J. Michael StraczynskiProducers: Grant Hill; J. Michael Straczynski; Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Jamie Clayton; Freema Agyeman; Miguel Ángel Silvestre; Alfonso Herrera; Brian J. Smith; Max Riemelt; Tina Desai; Doona Bae; Tuppence Middleton
© 2015 Netflix / Studio JMS / Anarchos Productions / Georgeville Television. All rights reserved.

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Dicks: The Musical has a twin incest sex scene scored like an opera. Yes, really. Two intimacy coordinators break down the most unhinged A24 movie you haven't seen.

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Megan Thee Stallion. Nathan Lane. Puppet penises. And a sex scene between twins that somehow becomes a camp masterpiece.

Dicks: The Musical is absurd, offensive, and genuinely hilarious. Ariel and Morgan react to the scenes everyone is too afraid to describe.

In this episode:

• The twin hookup scene (yes, it's opera-scored)
• Why unrealistic sex can be funnier than realistic sex
• Walking 69s and spit takes
• How men fake it on screen
• Puppet intimacy in theater

This episode is for you if:
• You love A24's weirdest movies
• You want to hear intimacy coordinators lose their minds
• You need queer comedy that isn't serious for once

Watch along timestamps:
• Opening scene: 0:50
• Sleepover scene: 1:10:00

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Dicks: The Musical (2023) | Director: Larry Charles | A24

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Secretary (2002) has the sexiest no-contact scene in film history. Two intimacy coordinators break down the BDSM cult classic that still sparks debate.

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Maggie Gyllenhaal. James Spader. A desk. And a worm that somehow becomes the hottest moment in the movie.

Secretary changed how Hollywood talked about kink on screen. But does it hold up? Ariel and Morgan break down the iconic, controversial, and deeply weird BDSM film that people are still arguing about 20 years later.

In this episode:

• The worm scene — why anticipation and eye contact are sexier than touch
• The Peter problem: she's asking for domination. He's giving nothing.
• Why "no safeword, no conversation" is doing a LOT of heavy lifting
• Kink as emotional connection vs. kink as self-harm replacement
• Breath work that deserves awards and hand spasms that steal the show

The verdict: No notes. (Okay... some notes.)

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• Peter scene: 1:08:00
• Worm scene: 1:10:00
• Aftercare/gardening scene: 1:41:00

This video is for you if:
• You love cult classics from the early 2000s
• You want to understand why Secretary is still discussed
• You're curious about BDSM representation on film
• You're a fan of Maggie Gyllenhaal or James Spader

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Secretary (2002) | Director: Steven Shainberg | Starring: Maggie Gyllenhaal, James Spader | Lionsgate

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Ariel and Morgan are diving into Brokeback Mountain: the film that changed queer representation forever… and also left us with a lot of questions about how these scenes actually function.

From the infamous first tent scene to the long-awaited reunion, we’re breaking down what’s working, what’s not, and why these moments feel so tense without ever fully landing.

They get into it all:

• The reality of prep, lubrication, and pacing (and what’s missing here)
• How tension overtakes intimacy and why that leaves the scenes feeling incomplete
• The difference between awkwardness that serves the story vs. awkwardness that comes from unclear choreography
• How the intimacy goes from zero to 100… and tends to stay there forever

Plus: beans, spit logistics, near broken noses, and a very real conversation about how these scenes would be approached differently today with an intimacy coordinator.

We also zoom out to talk about the film’s massive cultural impact, the historical context it exists in, and why representation matters, even when the intimacy itself needs room for growth.

Justice for lube. That’s all we’re saying.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers the Tent scene: 00:27:30, the Rasslin' scene: 00:32:51, and the Reunion scene: 01:03:07. We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN

Director: Ang Lee
Writers: Larry McMurtry; Diana Ossana
Source Material: Based on the short story by Annie Proulx
Producers: Diana Ossana; James Schamus
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Heath Ledger; Jake Gyllenhaal; Michelle Williams; Randy Quaid
© 2005 Focus Features / River Road Entertainment / Good Machine. All rights reserved.

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This one is so real it hurts.

Ariel and Morgan dive into PEN15 (Season 1, Episode 3: “Ojichan”). From the very first moment of “wait… what is happening to my body?” to the full spiral of can’t-stop-won’t-stop self-discovery, this episode captures the chaos, confusion, and intensity of discovering desire with absolutely no roadmap.

They get into it all:

• The painfully accurate portrayal of first arousal: awkward, obsessive, and completely all-consuming
• Why casting adult actors as teens might allow the show to explore this safely without crossing ethical lines
• The way PEN15 captures the feeling of “I must be the only one experiencing this”
• How shame, secrecy, and silence around sex education shape those early experiences

It’s cringey. It’s deeply familiar. And it turns one of the most private human experiences into comedy gold.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers Maya's first discovery (00:00:41), the Closet/Walkman scene (00:09:22), and the Classroom montage (00:04:14) We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

👉 Before you say anything - yes, Ariel mispronounced Maya Erskine’s last name. We know. We’re sorry. We love her.

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CREDITS — PEN15 (S1E3 “Ojichan”)
Creators: Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle; Sam Zvibleman
Director: Daniel Gray Longino
Writers: Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle; Sam Zvibleman
Producers: Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle; Sam Zvibleman
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Maya Erskine; Anna Konkle
© 2019 Hulu / Lonely Island Classics, Odenkirk Provissiero Entertainment,
AwesomenessTV. All rights reserved.

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👉 BIG OLD SPOILERS AHEAD! YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!

The Buffy reboot/reimagining isn't happening for now. We are devastated. So naturally, we need to talk about Buffy and Spike in season 6.

Ariel and Morgan are finally diving into Buffy the Vampire Slayer where things are darker, messier, and include a whole lot more property damage 👀.

From literally breaking a house down during sex to invisible hookups to whatever the hell is happening on that balcony… they have thoughts.

They get into it all:

• The iconic Buffy/Spike “Smashed” scene: why it’s so hot and makes zero logistical sense
• How the show tries to portray Buffy’s rock bottom through sex (and where it succeeds vs. fails)
• The invisibility scene as a surprisingly perfect example of how simulated sex actually works on set
• Why the show keeps saying Buffy and Spike are kinky… while showing the most vanilla execution imaginable
• The difference between toxic intimacy vs. BDSM, and why those are not the same thing

Plus: pants continuity crimes, mystery penetration logistics, and a full breakdown of our personal histories with Spuffy.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers "Smashed” (House scene): ~00:39:39, “Gone” (Invisibility scene): ~00:28:08, and “Dead Things” (Balcony scene): ~00:20:25 We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER
Creators: Joss Whedon

“Smashed” (Season 6, Episode 9)
Director: Turi Meyer
Writers: Drew Z. Greenberg; Rebecca Rand Kirshner; Steven S. DeKnight

“Gone” (Season 6, Episode 11)
Director: David Fury
Writers: David Fury; Rebecca Rand Kirshner; Steven S. DeKnight

“Dead Things” (Season 6, Episode 13)
Director: James A. Contner
Writers: Steven S. DeKnight; Rebecca Rand Kirshner; Drew Z. Greenberg

Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Sarah Michelle Gellar; James Marsters; Nicholas Brendon; Emma Caulfield; Alyson Hannigan
© 1997–2003 Mutant Enemy, Inc. / 20th Century Fox Television. All rights reserved.

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Get ready for one of the most bizarre and brazen films of a generation.

In this episode, Ariel and Morgan travel back to 1968’s sci-fi cult classic Barbarella — a movie where Jane Fonda strips out of a spacesuit in zero gravity and later defeats a villain using… an orgasm machine.

Yes. Really.

The hosts break down how the film uses erotic spectacle, camp, and absurdity to create scenes that are both wildly objectifying and oddly revolutionary for their time.

They get into it all:

• How the famous zero-gravity striptease opening uses choreography, framing, and floating credits to tease and shock the audience
• Why the “Excessive Machine” scene was extremely bold for mainstream cinema in 1968
• Fascinating power dynamics where the villain weaponizes pleasure and the hero literally sets the situation on fire.
• Why early Hollywood often treated sex as visual spectacle first and human experience second

It’s campy. It’s chaotic. And somehow still iconic.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers the opening striptease (0:00:00) and the excessive machine scene (Time Code: ~1:15:00). We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — Barbarella
Director: Roger Vadim
Writers: Terry Southern; Roger Vadim; Claude Brulé; Vittorio Bonicelli
Source Material: Based on the comic Barbarella by Jean-Claude Forest
Producer: Dino De Laurentiis
Actors: Jane Fonda; Milo O’Shea
© 1968 Dino De Laurentiis Cinematografica / Paramount Pictures. All rights reserved.

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This one’s about awkward first times — featuring skinny jeans, bad geometry, and absolutely zero game.

Ariel and Morgan sit down with intimacy coordinator and author Brooke M. Haney to break down the chaotic, vulnerable, and surprisingly tender hookup scenes from Booksmart: a film that proves intimacy on screen doesn’t have to be polished to be powerful.

They get into it all:

• Why awkward intimacy can still be choreographed and is not an excuse to skip process
• The storytelling power of wardrobe choices, body language, and messy logistics (yes, including skinny jeans and sneakers)
• And why representation of imperfect queer intimacy matters when so many people learn about sex from movies

It’s thoughtful, nerdy, hilarious, including shop talk from kit items and choreography language to the very real production challenges of filming intimacy on beaches, in pools, and under rapidly disappearing sunlight.

Buy Brooke's book "A History of Intimacy Professionals in Entertainment" Here!

Buy Brooke's book "The Intimacy Coordinator's Guidebook" Here!

Listen to us on the podcast "Happier in Hollywood" Here!

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers the pool sequence (~1:04:00) and the bathroom hookup scene (Time Code: 1:14:42–1:18:00). We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — Booksmart (2019)

Director: Olivia Wilde
Writers: Emily Halpern; Sarah Haskins; Susanna Fogel; Katie Silberman
Producers: Megan Ellison; Jessica Elbaum; Katie Silberman...
Actors: Kaitlyn Dever; Diana Silvers; Victoria Ruesga
Studio: Annapurna Pictures / Gloria Sanchez Productions
© 2019 Annapurna Pictures. All rights reserved.

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