What happens when career ambition collides head-on with family life? In this episode, Tim sits down with Connor — a first-time dad, commercial pilot, and former aspiring Air Force aviator — for an honest conversation about the choices that define us as fathers.

Connor shares what it was like to grow up as the oldest of four boys in a military family, watching his stoic, often-deployed dad lead by example. He opens up about his own years-long pursuit of becoming an Air Force National Guard pilot — and the pivotal moment when his wife's pregnancy helped him finally see how far his priorities had drifted from what mattered most.

From missing church every Sunday during airline training to leaving home just days after his son Cooper was born, Connor reflects on the cost of unchecked ambition — and the unexpected peace he found in letting it go.

The conversation also dives into the lost art of rites of passage, the book The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson, and Connor's plans to walk his son through meaningful milestones — from the first shave to learning to fly.

In this episode:

• Growing up in a military household and learning to lead by example
• Why the Air National Guard dream nearly cost Connor his family
• Life as a reserve pilot and navigating an unpredictable schedule with a newborn
• The power of rites of passage and why modern boys are missing them
• Extracurriculars, sports, and finding the balance between pushing and allowing kids to choose
• What being truly present looks like with a 4-month-old

Father and Friend is a podcast for dads who want to show up, love deeply, and make a lasting impact on their families. Visit fatherandfriend.com to connect.

In this conversation, Tim and Brent Howell discuss the profound impact of divorce on fatherhood and marriage, exploring Brent's personal journey from being a child of divorce to becoming a father of five. They delve into the misconceptions surrounding marriage, the importance of faith, and the lies that often lead to marital strife. Brent emphasizes the need for spiritual leadership in the family, the significance of honoring one's spouse, and the necessity of training children with both truth and grace. The discussion also highlights the mission of Covenant Army, which aims to equip couples to strengthen their marriages and combat the challenges they face.

Connect with Brent and Lucy ⁨@CovenantArmyPodcast⁩

or at https://covenantarmy.org/

TAKEAWAYS

*Divorce can have a lasting impact on families and children.

*Understanding the true nature of marriage is crucial for success.

*Faith plays a significant role in navigating marriage and fatherhood.

*Identifying and combating lies in relationships is essential.

*Selfishness is often at the core of marital issues.

*Apologizing and humility can lead to healing in relationships.

*The myth of the Brady Bunch family often misrepresents reality.

*Every marriage faces daily battles that require attention and effort.

*Leading spiritually as a father sets a strong example for children.

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In this conversation with Tim, Peter shares his journey from a homeschooling family to a successful career in startups and government. He reflects on the impact of his childhood experiences, particularly the influence of his mother and the Bible, on his personal and professional development. Peter discusses his work in the blue economy and the challenges of integrating faith with business. He emphasizes the importance of family values, particularly in parenting, and shares insights on how to balance work and family life. The three key takeaways are to pray, play, and grow with your family. The conversation also highlights his latest project, Bible Belles, aimed at providing positive messaging for young girls.

Connect With Peter:

https://www.fruxd.com/

Connect With The Bible Belles Project:

https://shop.biblebelles.com/

00:00 Intro

03:22 The Impact of Military Experience

09:01 Transitioning to the Startup World

11:01 Exploring the Blue Economy

15:44 Bible Bells: A New Venture

20:19 Fatherhood and Personal Growth

23:45 The Journey of Independence in Parenting

24:46 The Importance of Prayer in Family Life

26:45 Playing Together: Building Bonds

28:35 Growing Together: Family Experiences and Learning

30:04 Navigating Education Choices for Children

34:26 Cultural Integration and Parenting Values

37:50 Final Reflections on Parenting and Humility

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#PeterRobbins #parenting #childhood #memories #BibleBelles #blueeconomy #startups #familyvalues #culturalintegration #personalgrowth #faithbasededucation

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