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In this episode, Singer Songwriter and Bass Player for the Gorillaz, Seye Adelekan shares his powerful journey from addiction to sobriety, highlighting the importance of self-love, community, and mental health. Seye has become and advocate for musicians and their mental health through various programs such a Music Minds Matter in the UK. Seye talks about the how sobriety has enhanced his life in so many areas, from his creativity to his connections. Seye was in the darkest place with his alcohol consumption, drinking wine first thing in the morning and alcohol stealing so much of what was good in his life. He eventually got into a rehab program and he slowly rebuilt his life. We also talk about meeting life on life's terms, the ability to go from playing stadium gigs in front of 10's of thousands of people and coming down from shows in much healthier ways. He also shares lots of tips for early sobriety, including placing time limits on your socials engagements and being with cravings. This is an amazing episode, full of so much wisdom from this wonderful human.

Links below

• Music Minds Matter - Help Musicians UK
• Seye Adelekan - Instagram

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In this episode, Comedian, Mandy Nolan shares her journey of sobriety, the impact on her comedy career, and how giving up alcohol has transformed her life. We explore the social dynamics of being sober, the humour in sobriety, and practical tips for maintaining a sober lifestyle.

Resources

• https://lyres.com/en-au/search?q=prosecco
• Mandy Nolan's Website

Guest links

• Twitter
• Instagram

For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to

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In this episode, Kate shares her inspiring journey of sobriety, personal growth, and the transformative power of slow recovery and yoga. Discover how she rebuilt her life step-by-step and the importance of community, rituals, and self-belief.

For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to

www.iquitalcohol.com.au

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If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.

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In this inspiring interview, Tyrone Mulvaney shares his journey of sobriety, the importance of identity building, and practical strategies to stay on course. Discover how daily habits, mental models, and community support can transform your life and help you become a sober legend.

For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to

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If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.

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In this epic interview, mens confidential advisor, Sam Morris shares his transformative journey from complete self-destruction to becoming a powerful advocate for men's emotional health and sobriety. Discover deep insights into the roots of addiction, the importance of vulnerability, and practical approaches to healing and masculinity.

To contact Sam or find out more about Sam

@sam.g.morris - Instagram

themsaculinetruth.substack.com

For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to

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Aussie Musician, Tom Wolfe shares his inspiring journey of sobriety, the impact on his music career, and the power of community and honesty in overcoming alcohol dependence. Discover how embracing sobriety transformed his life, relationships, and artistry.

Guest links Wolfe Brothers

• Instagram
• Spotify

For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to

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If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.

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In this inspiring interview, Australian actor Marty Dingle Wall shares his journey of sobriety, the impact on his career, and insights into trusting the creative process. Discover how sobriety has empowered his life and career, and his leading role in his latest move, 'This Bloody Country' and upcoming projects.

To watch This Bloody Country go to

https://www.amazon.com/This-Bloody-Country-Craig-Packard/dp/B0FD4RC97R

For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to

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If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.

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In today’s episode we conclude our Change Is Not Linear series exploring the Stages of Change model developed by James Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente.

This episode explores the relapse stage, or what is often referred to as “recycling” through the stages of change.

Relapse is one of the most misunderstood and shame-filled parts of behaviour change, yet it is also one of the most human.

In this episode we explore:

• Why relapse does not mean failure
• The cyclical nature of healing and behaviour change
• How shame can keep people stuck longer than the behaviour itself
• Nervous system responses and returning to familiar coping strategies
• The emotional build-up that often happens before relapse
• Why relapse rarely begins with the behaviour itself
• All-or-nothing thinking and shame spirals
• The importance of compassion, honesty, and support
• How relapse can provide important insight and information
• Returning to yourself without self abandonment

We also talk about how relapse does not erase growth, awareness, healing, or progress, and why many people move through the stages of change multiple times before long-term transformation becomes sustainable.

This episode is an invitation to view setbacks with compassion instead of self punishment, and to remember that healing doesn't equal perfection but an opportunity to return to yourself again and again.

• Where in my life do I still equate struggle with failure?
• What usually happens emotionally before I abandon myself or return to old patterns?
• How do I speak to myself after mistakes or setbacks?
• What would change if I viewed relapse as information instead of proof that I’m broken?
• What support helps me return to myself when I’m struggling?
• Can I believe that healing is still possible, even when the journey is imperfect?

• Episode 1 — Protecting the Behaviour
• Episode 2 — Living Between Two Worlds
• Episode 3 — Imagining Another Life
• Episode 4 — Practising a New Way of Being
• Episode 5 — The Practice of Staying
• Episode 6 — Returning Without Shame

If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who may need the reminder that setbacks do not erase progress, and that healing can still continue after difficult moments.

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