• Needism - How to Find Safety and Love Within
    Jun 19 2026

    Are you constantly chasing safety, validation, or love from the world around you, only to find yourself still feeling empty, anxious, or in pain?


    In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional needs drive adult suffering. Scott answers frequent listener questions about how we can finally meet our own internal needs by properly processing our emotions, rather than looking for external fixes.


    We map out exactly how emotional repression forms in our earliest attachment years and follows us into adulthood, creating a cycle of unconscious suffering. More importantly, Scott lays down a practical, actionable path to help you start meeting your core needs for safety and love from within.


    Key Takeaways from the Episode


    The Roots of Needism: How our earliest relationship attachments set the blueprint for how we handle—or repress—our deepest emotional needs.


    The Illusion of the External Fix: Why trying to get your needs met outside of yourself is a losing battle that only prolongs adult suffering.


    The Power of Processing: A deep dive into the mechanics of emotional processing and how letting yourself fully feel can dissolve decades of repression.


    Your Path to Inner Safety: Scott’s foundational steps to begin cultivating genuine love, security, and safety within your own system today.


    The moment you stop demanding the world mirror back the safety you crave, and instead learn to anchor that safety inside your own body, the cycle of suffering ends.


    Visit repressiontest.com to begin Scott’s work and to be automatically added to his newsletter.

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    14 mins
  • The Rage Holders—How Real Suffering Comes from False Peace
    Nov 2 2025

    Scott gets down and dirty about his own rage and how not speaking up directly in relationship produces suffering in the lives of rage holders. To start this work for Free, visit repressiontest.com.

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    44 mins
  • Please Meet the Needs I Don’t Know I Have
    Oct 24 2025

    In this podcast episode, Scott discusses the anxious attachment style and unmet needs that go with it. Transformation happens when we find safety and love within. The anxious attachment style sabotages itself by looking outside of itself. The process of self compassion and skillfulness ends the suffering for the anxiously attached. But there are a lot of bumps and hurdles along the way. Only the earnest end up truly discovering authentic love. Start this work for free at repressiontest.com.

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    30 mins
  • Dying Paradigms—Emotional Repression, Beliefaholism & Authentic Recovery
    Oct 3 2025

    Scott and Dan, the co-developers of KI Emotional Repression Inquiry, are reuniting for an electrifying and groundbreaking podcast episode that you won't want to miss! This time, they’re tackling the provocative topic of dying paradigms, diving deep into how traditional structures are crumbling as individuals engage in transformative somatic work. The concept of existence independent of us is being annihilated from every angle, and KI is at the forefront with one of the most powerful somatic processes available.


    In this episode, Dan and Scott will share their compelling history and the paradigms they've witnessed falling away, all while highlighting how embracing KI can lead to true freedom and healing. This is a unique opportunity to explore the dying recovery paradigm—something they've never approached quite like this before!


    If you're interested in diving into the experiential aspect of this work, join Scott and Dan for a FREE Q&A on authentic recovery, Sunday October 5th. https://repression.as.me/freeQAwithScottandDan

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Conflation Nation - Part 2
    Sep 26 2025



    Join my friend ​and co-developer ​⁠​⁠@danmclintock and I for our second podcast on the oversights and dangers of conflation in both the mental health and political paradigms.


    Join us for our Addiction & Authentic Recovery Workshop Oct 18th at link in bio.

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    1 hr
  • Pathological Altruism
    Sep 19 2025

    In this episode, Scott explores Barbara Oakley’s concept of Pathological Altruism and dives deep into the world of repression inquiry. Scott explains how many acts of service, often perceived as altruistic, are actually driven by a hidden need to feel safe and gain love or approval. By burying these unconscious motivations along with difficult emotions, we create false identities based on being “good” or “altruistic.” However, once we process these buried emotions through repression inquiry, true authenticity emerges. No longer needing to maintain a facade of goodness, we find that our authentic selves are enough. If helping others is part of our calling, it can now come from a place of genuine connection, rather than from the drive to uphold a false identity.


    If you are a coach, teacher, therapist, or other helper, join Scott’s FREE Webinar Saturday, September 20th on Zoom. Scott will give instructions on first or next steps on your path towards learning to bring KI into your practice for your clients or students. Link to Webinar: https://repression.as.me/freewebinar4beginners-meta.

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    25 mins
  • Conflation Nation—A Podcast from the Developers of KI
    Jun 18 2025

    Join ​⁠Dan Mclintock and myself as we define, point to and deconstruct our tendency as human beings to conflate!


    Learn more at repressiontest.com (free test for buried emotions)

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    53 mins
  • Last Podcast Episode
    Jun 2 2025

    Scott is taking a break from podcasting for a while as he feels called to explore other endeavors. The work is now accessible for everyone to start for FREE at repressiontest.com. He is focusing on one-on-one mentorship and is in the process of developing a new six-month course titled "Becoming Unbound," which will be released soon.


    In the future, you might hear a short episode announcing his return to podcasting, but for now, Scott encourages you to dive into the world of KI for free and discover the true offerings surrounding this work. To enter that portal, visit repressiontest.com. If you feel drawn to work with Scott one-on-one, simply reach out to him on social media and type the word "love" to learn more about available options.

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    29 mins