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Sober Awkward

Sober Awkward

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Winner, Best Well-Being Podcast at The Australian Podcast Awards 2024


Have you ever woken up after a big night out and declared, “I’m never drinking again,” only to find yourself waving $50 at a barman by Happy Hour? Yep, Vic’s been there too.


Join Victoria Vanstone, award-winning podcaster, author, and former binge-drinking party animal, as she explores what it’s really like to be sober in a world absolutely soaked in alcohol. Each week on Sober Awkward, Vic dives into boozy topics, social pressures, anxiety, identity wobbles, and the messy reality of quitting drinking, opening up the shame shed of humiliating stories so you don’t have to feel alone in yours.


With humour, honesty, and zero judgement, Vic tells it like it is, from vomit and one-night stands to life on the other side of destructive drinking. If you’ve hit a wall, you’re fed up with anxiety, headaches, and blackouts, or you’re just quietly sober-curious, pop the kettle on and learn how to feel the awkward, and do it anyway.

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Episodes
  • The Share Shed: Awkward Questions & Confessions
    Jun 10 2026

    This week in the Share Shed, one listener wakes up to discover he’d apparently spent 40 minutes running barefoot on a treadmill at 3am… after swimming in a stranger’s pool and blacking out at a party.


    The only problem? He remembers none of it.


    A hilarious story with a surprisingly thoughtful twist about sobriety, fitness, and what happens when one obsession gets replaced by another.

    The Share Shed is where listeners send in their funniest, cringiest and most unbelievable drinking stories. It’s not about judgement, it’s about recognising how wild things could get when alcohol was in charge, and laughing about it now we’re on the other side.


    But sometimes, it’s also a place for the harder stuff, the honest bits we don’t always say out loud.


    If you’ve got a story you’d like to get off your chest, funny, awkward or something a bit more serious, you can send it to Vic at:


    vic@soberawkward.com


    Anonymous is absolutely fine. In fact, for legal reasons, probably preferable!!



    📞 SUPPORT & RESOURCES


    If anything in today’s Shame Shed felt familiar, or you’re worried about your drinking, there is support out there. You don’t have to do this on your own.


    🇦🇺 Australia

    National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline

    📞 1800 250 015 (24/7)

    🌐 https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/alcohol-and-drug-information-service


    Lifeline

    📞 13 11 14 (24/7)

    🌐 https://www.lifeline.org.au


    Hello Sunday Morning / Daybreak

    🌐 https://hellosundaymorning.org

    🌐 https://daybreakapp.com.au


    Clean Slate Clinic

    🌐 https://www.cleanslateclinic.com


    🇬🇧 United Kingdom

    Drinkline

    📞 0300 123 1110

    🌐 https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/alcohol-advice/alcohol-support/


    Alcohol Change UK

    🌐 https://alcoholchange.org.uk


    We Are With You

    🌐 https://www.wearewithyou.org.uk


    🌍 International

    Alcoholics Anonymous

    🌐 https://www.aa.org


    SMART Recovery

    🌐 https://www.smartrecovery.org



    💬 A gentle reminder

    If you’re drinking in the morning to cope, especially with anxiety or withdrawal symptoms, it’s really important to speak to a doctor or medical professional. Stopping suddenly can be unsafe for some people, and support can make a huge difference.

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    9 mins
  • Have You Swapped Booze for Scrolling? with TJ Power
    Jun 7 2026

    This week on Sober Awkward, Vic sits down with TJ Power, a well-known neuroscientist, author of the Sunday Times bestseller The DOSE Effect, and the founder of the DOSE Lab. He is a leading voice in demystifying brain chemistry, focusing on helping people manage digital burnout, phone addiction, and overstimulation in the modern world.


    TJ shares his own story of changing his relationship with alcohol, including a powerful epiphany at a music festival that made him completely rethink what connection, fun and presence really mean. Together, they explore the surprising similarities between alcohol addiction and phone addiction, and why both are fuelled by the same dopamine-driven reward systems in the brain.


    The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Vic has a rather uncomfortable realisation of her own. Eight years sober and feeling quite smug about no longer disappearing into bottles of wine, she suddenly discovers she’s been disappearing into something else instead… her phone.


    In a moment that feels a bit like being caught snogging behind the bike sheds, Vic realises she may be neglecting her children in exactly the same way she used to neglect them with alcohol. Not physically absent, but mentally elsewhere. Half listening. Half scrolling. Forever saying, “Just one second, darling…”


    It’s a surprisingly emotional moment as TJ explains that the dopamine hits from our phones aren’t a million miles away from the rewards we chase through alcohol, and Vic starts to wonder whether she’s simply swapped one distraction for another.


    This episode isn’t about throwing your phone in the sea or moving to a cave. It’s about becoming curious about the habits that quietly shape our lives.

    And make sure you listen right to the end, because Vic returns with a surprising update after attempting her own digital detox weekend.


    A fascinating conversation that might just make you question your scrolling as much as your drinking.


    Find TJ here - @tjpower

    @doselab - Order the book now - https://a.co/d/0fghgGAc

    www.thedoselab.com


    💛 Resources & Links


    📘 Victoria’s memoir – A Thousand Wasted Sundays

    A brutally honest and hilarious look at motherhood, anxiety, and ditching the booze.

    👉 Buy the book here


    🎧 Listen to more Sober Awkward episodes

    👉 www.soberawkward.com


    🫖 Join The Cuppa Community

    Our private, supportive online space for sober folk

    👉 www.cuppa.community


    📘 Get the Sober Awkward Guide

    Our downloadable toolkit for ditching booze the awkward way.

    👉 The Sober Awkward Guide


    📱 Follow us for daily sober fun:

    Instagram: @soberawkward

    TikTok: @soberawkward

    Facebook: Sober Awkward Community for Women

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    56 mins
  • The Share Shed: Awkward Questions & Confessions
    Jun 3 2026

    Today on the Share Shed we have one confession and one question.

    First up, a listener wakes up in Las Vegas with more than just a hangover… let’s just say Elvis may have been involved and somebody accidentally got married.

    Then we tackle a question many people quietly ask themselves: if your hands shake the morning after drinking, is that a sign you’re an alcoholic?


    The answer might surprise you.

    Pour yourself a cuppa and join us for today’s Share Shed.


    The Share Shed is where listeners send in their funniest, cringiest and most unbelievable drinking stories. It’s not about judgement, it’s about recognising how wild things could get when alcohol was in charge, and laughing about it now we’re on the other side.


    But sometimes, it’s also a place for the harder stuff, the honest bits we don’t always say out loud.


    If you’ve got a story you’d like to get off your chest, funny, awkward or something a bit more serious, you can send it to Vic at:


    vic@soberawkward.com


    Anonymous is absolutely fine. In fact, for legal reasons, probably preferable!!



    📞 SUPPORT & RESOURCES


    If anything in today’s Shame Shed felt familiar, or you’re worried about your drinking, there is support out there. You don’t have to do this on your own.


    🇦🇺 Australia

    National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline

    📞 1800 250 015 (24/7)

    🌐 https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/alcohol-and-drug-information-service


    Lifeline

    📞 13 11 14 (24/7)

    🌐 https://www.lifeline.org.au


    Hello Sunday Morning / Daybreak

    🌐 https://hellosundaymorning.org

    🌐 https://daybreakapp.com.au


    Clean Slate Clinic

    🌐 https://www.cleanslateclinic.com


    🇬🇧 United Kingdom

    Drinkline

    📞 0300 123 1110

    🌐 https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/alcohol-advice/alcohol-support/


    Alcohol Change UK

    🌐 https://alcoholchange.org.uk


    We Are With You

    🌐 https://www.wearewithyou.org.uk


    🌍 International

    Alcoholics Anonymous

    🌐 https://www.aa.org


    SMART Recovery

    🌐 https://www.smartrecovery.org



    💬 A gentle reminder

    If you’re drinking in the morning to cope, especially with anxiety or withdrawal symptoms, it’s really important to speak to a doctor or medical professional. Stopping suddenly can be unsafe for some people, and support can make a huge difference.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Absolutely love this podcast, it's like having 2 sober coaches in your pocket! Brilliant!

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It’s that time of year where we all get a little sober curious… I started listening to this on a whim and now Vic and Hamish accompany me on dog walks, long car journeys and even the occasional run.. I have genuinely laughed out loud and been thoroughly entertained all whilst strengthening my resolve to give up drinking. Thanks both.

My new mates Vic & Hamish

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