This episode is really about the part nobody talks about: your kids are learning business from you whether you’re trying to teach them or not. They’re watching what success does to you, what failure does to you, and what you make it mean and they’re quietly building their own beliefs about work, risk, money, and resilience from the way you handle it.

Bernie and I talk about the difference between what we say we value (boundaries, family, staying steady) and what we accidentally model when the pressure hits (when the launch flops, when the cash feels tight, when you’re winning but still living like you’re behind). Because your kids don’t take your advice. They copy your actions.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re passing down grit… or anxiety… or a workaholic badge of honor… you’ll hear yourself in this one. It’s a coffee chat about succeeding, failing, and recovering out loud, so the people watching you learn the right lessons.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

Most of us aren't stuck because we lack access to good advice. We're stuck because we treat someone else's strategy like a buffet, taking what looks good, skipping what's uncomfortable, and then wonder why it's not working like promised.

In this episode, Bernie and I get honest about what actually has to happen for advice to move from "that's so good" to actually changing how you operate and we are honest about the gap between consuming content and implementing it, why good intentions aren't the problem, and what it really means to surrender to an approach versus just going through the motions.

If you've ever taken a course, had a great coaching call, or bookmarked a podcast and done absolutely nothing with it (my hand is raised!!)…this one's for you.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

If you’ve ever stared at an open email thread and thought, “Okay, is this quality follow up, or did I just turn into a teenie bopper waiting on a text back from their crush?”… this one’s for you. We talk about the moment a warm lead turns weird, and how fast your confidence can leak out when you start trying to interpret someone’s silence instead of responding to it.

In this episode, Bernie and I get honest about where that line actually is between professional persistence and straight-up chasing. We unpack the subtle signals people give (and the ones they don’t), what it looks like to close the loop without burning the bridge, and why “fortune is in the follow-up” doesn’t mean you need to keep knocking on a door that’s clearly not opening.

You’ll walk away with a clearer gut-check for your next follow-up, a better way to stay in your CEO energy when someone’s dragging their feet, and a little permission to stop making excuses for prospects who won’t decide.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/