• Dr Irene Molina-Gonzalez - Running Beyond Burnout and Finding a New Purpose
    Jun 30 2026
    Irene is a sports scientist, endurance coach, and ultra-runner originally from Spain, now based in the UK. She moved to the UK in 2013 to pursue a Master's degree, intending to stay only briefly, but quickly fell in love with the country and never left. Her journey into ultra-running was entirely unplanned. She only started running consistently in 2017 during her PhD in Neuroscience, initially as a way to cope with academic stress. Distances gradually increased, and without even realising ultramarathons existed, she found herself constantly curious about how far she could go. Once she ran beyond 21 km, something clicked—and she never looked back. Running became both a coping mechanism and, at times, a source of imbalance. A combination of PhD stress, under-fuelling, disordered eating, and overtraining led to injury after her first ultramarathon in 2021. While challenging, that injury marked a turning point. Although her academic career appeared highly successful from the outside, Irene was experiencing severe burnout and quietly drifting away from neuroscience. In January 2023, she left academia altogether after a period of profound burnout. Ultra-running remained a constant during this time and ultimately helped her rebuild. By then, she had already completed coaching and sports rehabilitation qualifications, and the transition into applied sport felt natural. She founded Train4BodyMind, combining science, performance, and a more holistic approach to endurance sport. Later that year, Irene began a second MSc in Sport and Exercise Science and Medicine, while simultaneously building her coaching business and working in a physiotherapy clinic. Throughout this journey, she became increasingly aware of a major gap in sports science: the lack of research and evidence-based guidance for women. While searching for answers about her own body, she realised how little research existed on female endurance athletes—particularly in ultra-running. This led her to investigate how the menstrual cycle affects performance in female ultrarunners, an area that had been largely overlooked despite the extreme demands of the sport. Today, Irene is passionate about supporting women in endurance sports through evidence-based coaching and education. She is particularly focused on countering the widespread misinformation surrounding women's physiology and rigid cycle-based rules, which often create fear rather than empowerment. Her work aims to help women understand their bodies better, train with confidence, and use their physiology as a strength rather than a limitation. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Originally from Spain, now living in Edinburgh, Scotland in the UKWorking as a running coach for women, specialising in ultra marathons Being a sports scientistic and science nerd Her early years growing up in SpainDeveloping an eating disorder and spending time in hospital Not being able to get involved in sports Getting into running when she moved to the UKStarting her Neuroscience PhD in 2017Wanting to do an ultra marathon Becoming addicted to the ultra distances Experiencing burnout Deciding to do a shift in her career and move into coaching Getting into running to be able to disconnect Being an ultra runner before she knew about ultra marathons Using running to help manage stressNot fuelling enough during running and dealing with niggles and injuries Being very alone and not having support around herGetting injured and having to stop running The turning point in her lifeWorking with a physiotherapist Starting to study coaching ultra marathons Losing the attachment with her career and starting a different path Leaving academia, her job and becoming unemployed at 33 years old Learning how to coach herself Going deep into the science of ultra runningStudying for her masters in Sports Science Researching into the menstrual cycle and ultra runnersWhy the menstrual cycle is a health markerDr Stacy Simms - Tough Girl Podcast episode Coaching women on an individual basisThe importance of educating women about periods and menstruationRacing in Snowdonia Ultra Trail Snowdonia (UTS) Getting the balance right with training and workBeing organised and the importance of knowing what you are doingDoing strength training and why it's non negotiable for a runnerBreaking down the training into different phases and periods The final phase and tapering Making training work for herVisualising what can go wrong and right ...
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  • Helen Spencer – Vet, Polar Explorer & South Pole Ski Adventurer
    Jun 23 2026
    Meet Helen Spencer, a veterinarian from Kent who swapped clinic life for the extremes of the world. From hiking in Afghanistan, Mongolia, and Yemen to caring for orangutans in Borneo, Helen has chased adventure across the globe. In this episode, she shares her journey to ski the last degree to the South Pole, including: Training, kit prep, and polar skills coursesThe physical and mental challenges of long polar expeditionsCoping with loss, vulnerability, and finding strength on the iceLessons in perseverance, confidence, and small steps toward big dreams Helen's story is a testament to courage, resilience, and pursuing your goals—even when the journey is long and demanding. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is HelenBeing based in KentGrowing up on a farm and having a lot of freedom Becoming a vetWanting more adventure Working for the charity: World Wide Veterinary Service In her free time loving to travel Leaving school and travelling with her backpack, and staying in hostels Starting to do a few solo and group expeditionsHiking in Afganistan, Madagascar, Mongolia, Yemen, Palestine, North KoreaRecently skiing the last degree of the South Pole Building her confidence with travelling Earning enough money to go f www.interrail.eu/enHaving a budget of £10 per daySpending time in Borneo looking after OrangutansBeing a shy, farm kid growing up and being better with animals than people Having 5 years at university Having a neighbour who had a zoo and spending time helping out at the zooKnowing what she wanted to do when she was 5Building internal confidence Hiking in Afganistan's Wakhan Corridor Why expedition are about the people you meet as well as where you goGetting the balance right between being social enough but also having time for herself Needing time out and making sure she has her own tentHaving a 10 day tolerance on expeditions Her goal to ski to the the pole in Antarctica and where the dream came from Being fascinated by polar history A week long polar skills course in Finse, Norway Needing a challenge - being in bad mental and physical health Taking some time out after selling her veterinarian clinic in LondonHaving a year to get in shape Training at the Altitude Centre in London Not being able to test her kitReceiving a lot of help and advice Heading to Loughborough Elite Sports Centre to have her fitness tested Dr Amelia Rudd Heading over to Antarctica and what it was like Antarctic Logistics Expeditions (ALE)Being out on the ice and why it was like being out on the open ocean Pulling the pulk at altitude on the ice Why it was a physical challenge but also a mental challenge Her way of coping with difficulties Wanting to feel small Being there mid summer, when the sun never sets.Rainbows and halos forming around the sunBeing able to move forward after the challengeTrying to cope with the loss of her parents in an accident, 2 weeks before she was due to be married Being in a dark place Coping by being on her own and doing physical endurance Wanting to be broken down and feel vulnerable Getting to the pole and why it was hugely emotional Why it meant everything to her Kick onFundraising £20K in memory of her mum who had Parkinson'sGaining confidence, a bit more self assurance and pride. Spending 3 weeks in Antarctica, and skiing for 8 days Tent life…Going to the loo! Code Brown! Pooing in a bag and packing out your poo.The worst bit of the expedition and having to leave your warm sleeping bagHow to connect with Helen on Social Media Final words of adviceSome dreams can take timeTaking small steps and trying the thing you want to doHer mantras in life…. "Don't be a dick to yourself", "Don't be a dick to others" and Don't be a dick with our environment" Social Media Instagram: @adventure_vet_spence Justgiving: www.justgiving.com/page/helen-spencer-1728903029666
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  • Dr. Shawna Pandya – Canada's First Named Female Commercial Astronaut & Space Medicine Pioneer
    Jun 16 2026
    Meet Dr. Shawna Pandya, Canada's first named female commercial astronaut and a leading figure in space medicine. From emergency medicine to aquanaut missions and suborbital research flights, Shawna has trained to thrive in some of the most extreme environments on Earth—and soon, in space. In this episode, she shares her journey from a childhood inspired by Dr. Roberta Bondar, through neuroscience and medical training, to testing spacesuits in zero gravity and completing multiple NEPTUNE aquanaut missions. We dive into: The challenges of spaceflight on the body and mindThe "RIDGE" framework Radiation, Isolation, Distance, Gravity, EnvironmentUsing emergency medicine, diving, and piloting to build operational readinessMaintaining balance, avoiding burnout, and living a life aligned with valuesPreparing for her upcoming flight with Virgin Galactic Shawna's story is a masterclass in perseverance, curiosity, and aiming for the stars—literally. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is Shawna Being Canada's first named female Astronaut Her early years and growing up in the 90sWanting to be an Astronaut since she was a child and being inspired by Dr. Roberta BondarSimplifying things Wanting to follow in her footsteps Doing a neuroscience degreeThe influence of her parents Girl Guides of Canada Doing outdoor education during junior high and building her spirit of adventure Inheriting her work ethic from her parents - thinking the normal work day was from 7am to 10pmSharing her goal and telling people what she wanted to achieve Taking a family trip to Australia at 12 years old and being obsessed with the Southern Night Sky Not knowing if it will work out or not - Having to love the grind and the journey Keeping focused on the goal Not letting other people opinions stop her Her parents wanting her to have a realistic career ambition The roadmap included medicine After doing her undergrad in neuroscience and applying for medical schoolHaving a back up plan - just in case International Space University - Masters Program Asking medical school for a deferral Doing an internship at the European Space Agency European Space Centre and making a meaningful contribution to space medicine Dealing with criticismHaving balance in her life and not suffering from burnout Pursuing the trajectory as a research astronaut - and still maintaining her clinical hours in emergency medicine Work life balance Why she does't burn outLiving her life according to her values Having complete control over her schedule Being surrounded by good peopleFinding fulfilment and loving what she doesBeing inspired to be a better version of herself everyday Fitness and health in space Bone density and muscle mass Space Medicine The challenges of space flight environment and why it's trying to kill you The "RIDGE" Framework short for Space Radiation, Isolation and Confinement, Distance from Earth, Gravity fields, and Hostile/Closed Environments.Altered day night cycles - 1 sunrise/sunset every 90 mins - 16 sunrise - sunset cycles per 24hr period every and how it interferes with your sleep cycleMicro-gravity and how it affects your bodily systems Physical activity as therapy and using it as a way of investing in herself. The days she doesn't make it to the gym Needing to change something up - or end up burning out Learning diving skills and spending time underwaterLooking for transferable skillsBeing operational good and a good team mateOperational environments: - emergency medicine, diving, sky diving and piloting The importance of having aqua-naught experience Going on 2 NEPTUNE Missions NEPTUNE (Nautical Experiments in Physiology, Technology and Underwater Exploration)Building her space flight readinessLearning to handle stress in challenging situations Why there is no room for ego Using emergency medicine as an example Escalation patterns of communication Question - Suggestion - Statement - Command Why there is a time and place for everything If everything is urgent - nothing is urgent!Urgency fatigue - not knowing what do firstBeing aware of what tools you have at your disposalHigh risk - high reward scenarios The countdown to flight Since 2021 - the launch of private companies into space Going to space for research What kind of astronaut do you want to be?Being a research astronaut Training flights as a team - and getting to fly with her good friendsKellie Gerardi Dr. Norah Patten Figuring out ...
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  • Jeannette McGill: Everest at 52, Leadership at Altitude & The Truth Above 8,000m
    Jun 9 2026
    Jeannette McGill is a seasoned mountaineer and executive leader who, at 52, became the oldest South African woman to summit Everest in May 2025. With more than 30 years of global climbing experience—including leading expeditions across four continents—she knows deeply that the summit is never just about standing on top. Jeannette's journey is a testament to patience, resilience, and the quiet power of backing yourself, no matter how many setbacks you face. Beyond her personal achievements, she is passionate about demystifying the modern-day myths of Everest and advocates instead for the very real challenges mountain terrains face through climate change globally. Having been there herself, she brings an informed, honest perspective on what is truly happening above 8,000m. Today, Jeannette combines her love for high-altitude adventure with leadership on Boards and helping others explore their own limits. She also supports future generations through leading snow camps in the Victorian Alps and mountaineering scholarships, believing that mountains are powerful teachers of courage and humility. Her story is not just about conquering peaks but about becoming the kind of person who dares to try. We first spoke with Jeannette on 7th January 2021 - Jeannette McGill - 1st South African woman to summit Manaslu, the 8th highest mountain in the world *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is JeanetteCorporate executive, board director and most importantly a mountaineerSouth African by origin, located in Melbourne and spending up to 5 months in NepalTGP Episode - January 7th 2021 - - 1st South African woman to summit Manaslu, the 8th highest mountain in the worldHer Mt. Everest dream A one day - someday project…How climbing Mt. Everest came to the forefront of her mindTo be a real mountaineer you needed to tick Mt. Everest off the listDeciding to go in a different direction in 1995 The pivotal moment - university and having a career or entering the climbing competition Pursuing her career Was Mt. Everest a realistic goal?Growing into the projectAdding Mt. Everest to the bucket list after covidGoing through a back surgery and perimenopause and deciding that 2023 would be her Mt. Everest yearUsing Mera Peak as an acclimatisation strategy Getting sick and not recovering well, getting to camp 2 and not being able to continue.Heading back to Australia and deciding to go back in 2024Deciding to gift herself the power of a mid-life sabbatical Exciting her role in December 2023 and starting to train properly for Mt. Everest in 2024Joining a small teamMechanical failure on the mountain - her jumar not working and getting word that her house in Australia had burnt down. Getting to the South Col and not being in the right head space. Knowing she was making the right decision to turn around and head back down the mountain Dealing with the frustration and disappointment and why it was difficult Not being in a good head space. Needing to pivot and become nomadic during the winter Floundering and not knowing what was nextDeciding that she would regret it if she didn't back herself one final time. Pivoting and making the best of the situation Having flexibility and deciding to do Mt. Everest one last time Figuring out where to do the winter work - in either Scotland or New Zealand Packing up and heading over to New Zealand to do training Doing more mountain work, on the NZ Alps in the South Island How it became a more personal/internal objective/goal What training looked like Working with a mental and physical coachUsing Training Peaks Evoke Endurance Coach Returning to Manaslu in the fall of 2024Muscle endurance - steep hills in NZ out of Queenstown carrying 20kgs Following a structured gym program Her 'A' Team Figuring out through processes and what could derail herHaving cheat sheets e.g. a mopey list to keep her focused on her goal and what she needed to doHeading back to Mt Everest in 2025 and wanting to do the Everest - Lhotse Double (having 2 permits) Acclimatising on Mt. Mera Peak Being an older climber and the changes she madeSleeping at camp 3 on her rotation Heading up to the balcony The challenge of the 2025 season Dealing with extreme winds and not being able to stand upHaving to turn around - returning to her tent on the South Col and being hit with disappointment. Maybe climbing Mt. Everest just isn't going to happen again - shedding a tear Having her main sherpa needing to head ...
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  • Lauren Burnison – Pioneering the Sober Travel Movement and Adventures of a Single Mum
    Jun 2 2026
    Lauren Burnison is the founder of We Love Lucid, the UK's first alcohol-free travel company, and a trailblazer in the sober travel movement. From couch-surfing with nomads on the Mongolian steppe to snorkelling with sharks in Oman, Lauren has spent her life seeking off-the-beaten-path adventures—and this year, she took a two-month road trip through Spain and Portugal in a micro camper with her four-year-old daughter to celebrate ten years of sobriety. In this candid conversation, Lauren shares her journey from self-destructive habits to sobriety, how travel became her school of life, and the joys and challenges of being a single parent exploring the world. She talks about starting We Love Lucid, the lessons learned while traveling solo and with her daughter, and how adventure can transform the way we see ourselves. Explicit content: We touch on drugs, drinking, and addiction. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is LaurenComing from Northern Ireland Originally41 years oldFounder of We Love Lucid - The UK's First Alcohol-free Travel CompanyBeing a single mum to a very energetic 4 year old girl Being an aspiring writerReflecting back on her early years Being very creative, loving animals, and growing up in the countryside Where her love of travel came from Starting to learn Spanish in school and how her teacher inspired herHaving a knack for learning languages Finding a diary entry from when she was 15 years oldHaving an ambition to learn Spanish and French and wanting to live in Spain Getting to visit Spain at 16 on a sports camp Having her eyes opened and feeling invigorated while travelling on the road Why A'Levels were such a slog and hated being told what to do Being confident about travelling Deciding to travel around South America Getting into drugs and going down a self destructive path Heading back home to go to university Spending 6 months in Barcelona - working in a pizza restaurant and living in a tentGetting her degreeBeing taken further down the path and still being self destructive Making changes at 32 Wanting to explore and see more of the world - spending time in South AfricaGetting in more and more trouble Turning 30 and heading to South Korea to work as an English Teacher Having the best and worst moments of her lifeHitting rock bottom and deciding not to drink ever sinceGetting in trouble, and having the fear of losing her lifePartying with Chinese Dwarfs Seeing how bad her behaviour had gottenFeeling and being alone on this part of the journey Drinking 4 nights a weekThe hardest part - being faced with this situation of not knowing who she was Who is Lauren? Having to deal with difficult emotions.Feeing so vulnerable The night she decided to quit drinking Creating 'We Love Lucid' and how it helped her stay connected with the sober community Visiting the vast empty spaces in Mongolia Growing up with horses and riding horses Wanting to ride horses in Mongolia and how it turned in to a trip of self discovery Trying to figure out the next stepsWhy life is not just good or bad - it's a mixture of everything Heading to the South of Spain and doing a workaday experience over thereHow the idea for - We Love Lucid came about Not having a positive view of sobriety Thinking about her experiences as a sober person travelling Starting to run the trips Why the trips are all about connecting with sober people Cycling from Beer to Soberton….Why not all projects turn out how you want them to Not wanting to be a quitterGetting to 70 miles…..Why it was a bit of a failure, but also a valuable lesson at the same time Riding up the East Coast of Korea on a bike to North KoreaThe goodness of people How travel and adventure changed after having her daughterFeeling as though her world has been shrinkingHow it affected her mentally - with not being able to travel The realities of being a single mum in ScotlandHow her life seems so normalStarting to go away with her daughter Being on a road trip in Portugal for 1/2 months Trying to escape the winter in the UKNeeding to stay in the UK and going with that Starting to accept the reality Wanting to start her blog - "Adventures of a single, sober mum" Being able to afford a micro camper Why trips are a condensed school of life The beauty and joy of the quiet momentsWalking with 12 women on the Santiago de Compostela Mandy Manners - Sober Coach She Recovers Foundation How to connect with LaurenThe stigma around being a ...
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  • Helen Dainty – First Woman to Cycle Across Libya & 9 Years Living on £50 a Week by Bike
    May 26 2026
    In this Tough Girl Podcast EXTRA episode, we catch up with Helen Dainty — solo female cyclist, self-described "full-time global hobo," and one of the most committed long-distance bike travellers you'll ever meet. For the past decade, Helen has spent nine years on the road, travelling exclusively by bicycle and living on around £50 a week. She's cycled across Australia, ridden from London to Nordkapp and back, travelled extensively through the Middle East and North Africa — and in 2025 became the first woman to cycle across Libya. When war in Sudan forced her to abandon an overland route into East Africa, Helen adapted and rerouted — because that's what life on the road demands: flexibility, resilience, and the ability to trust the process. In this episode, we dive into what's happened since we last spoke in January 2022. From navigating complex visa systems (including Algeria and Libya), to travelling with police security details, being detained in Libya, and accepting incredible hospitality through the Warm Showers community — Helen shares the raw, practical realities of long-term cycle touring. We also talk about: The logistics of visas with a British passportWorking with visa agents and last-minute plan changesCycling in Algeria and LibyaBudget travel (sticking to AUD $100 per week)Her bike setup — switching from chain to belt driveSchwalbe Marathon Plus tyres and long-distance reliabilityNot collecting souvenirs and living with lessDocumenting her journey on YouTube (and the time spent editing!)Saying yes to unexpected opportunities Helen also opens up about going through perimenopause and menopause while cycling through deserts — dealing with extreme sadness, brain fog, hot sweats in the middle of the night, and coming out the other side feeling stronger and more balanced. At 47, she believes she has another strong decade of adventure ahead — and she's not slowing down. Looking forward, Helen plans to spend the next two years cycling down the west coast of Africa in an attempt to circle the continent, before eventually heading back towards Australia through Asia. Her advice for women wanting to do something different? Say yes to the opportunity — you can work out the details on the way. Accept without hesitation. Raw, honest, practical and deeply inspiring — this is a powerful catch-up with a woman who has built her entire life around two wheels. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is HelenCatching up since we last spokeCycling through the Middle East and Africa TGP Episode - January 2022 - TGP Extra Episode - What's changed?!Going back to the start of 2022 Taking the ferry from Turkey to Lebanon Flying home to surprise her family for Christmas Setting off toward Iran in 2022 The practical side of travel - visa's, entering and leaving countries (with a British Passport)Saudi Arabia and Oman using a E-visa system Getting a visa for Algeria - paperwork, needing to be in your home country while applying for the visa, face to face visit to the Embassy in London Visa's for Libya - not being issues and needing to work with a contact to get a visa Using a visa agent - Tap Persia Last minute change of plans and trying to extend a 2 week visa while in the country - which proved impossible Booking accommodation to get the visa Cycle touring being a little stressful at timesCycling in Algeria for a few days and what the experience was likeWarmshowers hosts Accepting hospitality Having an Algerian security detail (police) and what that entails Needing to trust the process Having her passport taken off her…Arrested/detained in Libya by the police Finding affordable accommodation Tourist sites in Algeria and Libya Not meeting other bike packers in Libya How it all happened….Saying yes to opportunities as they present themselves Libyan Cycling Centre Starting to share videos on Youtube and documenting her trips Working on improving the sound quality Aiming for 8 min vlogsThe time spend editing….Sticking to her budget of AUD $100 a weekThe bike, the bike set up and new gearChanging from a chain to a belt drive Getting a new saddle - Repente What is a belt drive and needing a specific frame for it and how it works Why it's popular with long distance tourers Schwalbe Marathon Plus tires Not collecting souvenirs Day to day emotions and loving life on the roadNot having any plans to stop cycling Heading into Western Africa - and taking 2 years to cycle down the coast...
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  • Chloe Stead – From Navy Life to Nomadic Living, Caminos, Grief & Choosing a Simpler Way
    May 21 2026
    In this episode of the Tough Girl Podcast, we meet Chloe Stead — 42 years old and currently living in a rustic tiny shack in the bush in Tasmania with her husband — but her journey to this simple life has been anything but ordinary. Since 2008, Chloe has been living a travelling, nomadic lifestyle. After leaving school at 18 to join the Navy and later working in health and safety in Perth, Australia, she reached a quiet breaking point while staying at the Whim Creek Hotel in 2006. A simple but powerful thought surfaced: There has to be more to life than this. Within a week, she sold her house, packed up a shipping container, took her dog, and began driving solo around Australia with just $500 AUD — despite being petrified of sleeping in a tent. That leap of faith set the course for the next chapter of her life. But Chloe's story is not just about adventure — it's about grief, reinvention, and learning to live on her own terms. After the sudden death of her partner Willy in 2013, everything stopped. In the depths of grief, Chloe stepped away from social media, let go of her old life, and slowly began again. Meditation, yoga retreats, and eventually walking the Camino de Santiago in 2014 became turning points. Carrying everything on her back, she discovered a deep love for minimalism, simplicity, and self-reliance. Over the years, Chloe has: Walked multiple Caminos including the Camino del Norte, Camino Primitivo and Via de la PlataHitchhiked and walked along the beaches of UruguayTaken a 10,000km road trip with her dog DexterLived off less than $100 AUD per weekWorked seasonally to fund months of adventureCycled from Alaska to San Francisco (86 nights in a tent!)Walked the Wales Coast Path and the Portuguese CaminoChosen to stay off social media to be fully present on trail Now married, Chloe continues to design a life built around freedom, movement, and intentional simplicity. With big adventures planned for 2026 — including walking the South West Coast Path and the GR10 — she shares honestly about navigating partnership on trail, managing knee issues, strength training gains, and why getting to the start line is often the hardest part. This conversation is about: Letting go of possessions and expectationsLiving with uncertaintyProcessing grief through movementCreating "trail life" off-trailWhy you don't need technology to experience adventureTrusting that the universe conspires to keep you goingAnd why you should "give it a crack and get to the start line." Chloe's message is simple but powerful: Life is uncertain. Don't put things off. If there's something you want to do — take the plunge. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is Chloe42 years old, currently living in Tasmania in a rustic tiny shack in the bush with her husband Living a travelling lifestyle since 2008What was the lead up to making changes in her lifeLeaving school at 18 and joining the Navy2006 living in Perth, Australia and having a job in health and safetyStarting to feel different when staying at the Whim Creek HotelThinking that there has to be more to life100 things to see and do in Australia before you die Selling her house within a week, filling up a shipping containerTaking her dog and starting to drive solo around Australia Being encouraged by a friend - to just do it! Not being in tune with herself Highlights from spending time on the road, driving around Australia Starting off with $500 AUD and getting a job Spending the trip just driving around Being petrified of staying in a tentPitching her tent and staying in it for the first timeMeeting a boy, Willy (which wasn't part of the plan!) Deciding to move to New Zealand (2009 - 2010)Backpacking around Europe for 3 monthsPlanning every day and having a very tight schedule Feeling disheartened with her experience Needing to do something spontaneous Backpacking around Cambodia for 3 weeks with no plan Seeing a flyer about yoga and meditationStruggling with mental health and things in life Doing a yoga retreat in Australia and doing a deep dive into meditation Starting to work in farming around Australia 2013 and the year of her 30th birthdayDeciding to go to South America to visit Machu Picchu Willys death and how it stopped everything Not knowing how to copeThe funeral and not wanting to live where she was living or work where she was working Getting rid of her phone and getting off social mediaStarting again and wanting to forget Needing to deal ...
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  • Aisyah Rafaee - 2x Olympic Rower on Comebacks, Mental Strength & Redefining High Performance in Your 30s
    May 19 2026
    In this episode of the Tough Girl Podcast, we're joined by Aisyah Rafaee – a two-time Olympic rower from Singapore who competed at the Rio 2016 and Paris 2024 Olympic Games in the single scull. After taking an eight-year break from the sport, Aisyah made the bold decision to return—qualifying for Paris 2024 as one of the oldest athletes in the field and redefining what it means to be a high-performing athlete in your 30s. Originally from Singapore and now based in Boston, USA, Aisyah grew up with four brothers and discovered rowing after being scouted during an indoor competition at school. With limited rowing culture and opportunities in Singapore, she carved her own path—training overseas in Sydney, qualifying through a fiercely competitive Asian selection process, and representing Singapore on the world stage. But her journey hasn't been linear. From struggling with pressure at her first Olympics to working with mental skills coach Hansen Bay, from stepping away from elite sport to rediscovering her love for movement, from fracturing her ribs a month before Paris to qualifying with just six months to go—this is a powerful conversation about identity, resilience, vulnerability, and growth. Now working as a HYDROW Athlete and Mental Performance Coach with 3HP Athlete Coaching, Aisyah shares insights on: Building confidence and resilienceLetting go of expectationsSeparating identity from performanceThe realities of returning to elite sport after time awayTraining and mindset during pregnancyWhy rowing is a lifelong sportHer philosophy of the 3Hs: Happy, Healthy & High Performing This episode is about trusting your timing, embracing new chapters, and asking yourself: Is this smart for me? Aisyah's story is proof that it's never "too late" to chase a dream — and that high performance can evolve with you. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is AisyahBeing based in Boston, USAOriginally from Singapore Working as a HYDROW Athlete Working as a Mental Performance Coach3HP Athlete Coaching 2x Olympic rower in the single sculllCompeting at the 2016 and 2024 Olympics Learning to live a normal life outside of sports Growing up in Singapore with 4 brothers3 older brothers and 1 younger brotherBeing sporty and learning to be competitive Living a simple life and being raised by her mum after her parents got divorcedNot knowing where her mindset comes fromWanting to be the best version of herself Not being surrounded by high performance individuals Starting rowing, Singapore not having much of a rowing culture Getting scouted at her secondary school during an indoor rowing competition Singapore Rowing AssociationThe importance of hight in rowing 5'8 (173cm)and being tall for an Asian Woman Learning how to row on land with the ergo The challenges and continuing to show u to training Not enjoying it at firstGetting out on the water and spending more time in the water than on the waterThe lack of opportunities in SingaporeWhy the Olympics was not on her radar Wanting to be the best at it and wanting to represent Singapore Team sport (Netball) V individual endeavours (Rower)The South East Asia GamesRowing in a single scullWinning gold in 2013 and beating a 2x Olympian Quitting her job and training full time in Australian When the seed got planted about going to the OlympicsDeciding to go and train over in Sydney, Australia Building confidence and winning competitions Qualifying for the 2016 Olympics - the Asian Qualification Criteria for that cycle 16 countries competing for 7 spotsDealing with the pressure of going to the Olympics and being able to perform at the highest level The weight of expectation and not being able to perform Working with the mental skills coach Hansen BayThe power of letting go of expectations, facing the fear, how losing can tie into identity, building confidence and resilienceThe practical side of mental preparation Communication and trust Learning how to be vulnerable Why it took more than 1 session Taking an 8 year gap and what happened Trying to retire from sports and wanting to focus on her career2018 and deciding to do some soul searching and heading to the USA to work as a rowing coach in BostonMeeting her current husbandGetting into marathon running and thinking about trying out for the Paris Olympics2023 - visiting ParisThinking she was too old to row in the Olympics in her 30sHaving 6 months to qualify for the Paris Olympics Qualifying in April 2024 ...
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    47 mins