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Dr. Rosen and Dr. Gross sit down with addiction psychiatrist Dr. Adam Demner to talk about what actually happens — and what doesn't — when someone tries to get clean.

The conversation covers a lot of ground: why treating addiction without addressing the underlying psychology can backfire, how early psychoanalytic approaches actually drove some patients to drink more, and what the monkey bars have to do with recovery. Dr. Demner walks through the stages of change in plain terms, including what it looks like when someone's not even close to ready, and why that still doesn't mean treatment has nothing to offer.

They get into the 28-day rehab model, why the best outcomes often come from longer stays, and what physician recovery programs can teach us about the role of accountability versus insight. There's also a candid conversation about the growing cultural pressure around psychedelics and marijuana — and why "the research supports it" isn't always what people think it means.

The throughline is something all three of them come back to: addiction treatment isn't a quick fix, it's rarely linear, and the goal isn't a diagnosis — it's a person.

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Dr. David Gross and Dr. Andrew Rosen have been watching the marijuana conversation shift for decades and they're not buying the hype. They dig into why so many people are convinced marijuana is harmless, or even healing, when the clinical picture tells a much messier story. Confirmation bias plays a starring role: we tend to seek out what confirms what we already want to believe, and the marijuana industry has been very good at giving people exactly that.

The conversation covers what actually happens in the brain when cannabinoids move in and why THC's fat-soluble nature means it sticks around far longer than most users realize. They talk about state-dependent learning, the subtle but real effects on driving, and why today's marijuana is nowhere near what it was in the 1960s. Same name, very different drug.

There's a lot of ground covered on the developing brain too. Why teenage use hits differently than starting in your 30s or 40s, what the research actually shows about schizophrenia risk, and why the frontal lobe matters more than most people appreciate.

The tobacco comparison runs throughout, and it's hard to shake. It took decades and a mountain of lawsuits before the public caught up with what science was already saying. They're worried we're on the same road with marijuana, just further behind than we should be.

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Dr. Andrew Rosen and Dr. David Gross have spent decades sitting across from people who genuinely want to stop using drugs or alcohol and simply can't. This conversation gets into why that happens, and why willpower has far less to do with it than most people think.

A specific region deep in the brain called the nucleus accumbens gets reprogrammed by repeated drug use, eventually overpowering the logical, planning part of the brain. That's not a metaphor. It's why someone can leave the emergency room after a cocaine-induced cardiac arrest and stop to buy more on the way home.

They walk through what addiction actually means, including the difference between physical dependence and the full picture of compulsive use that derails jobs, relationships, and daily life. There's also a genetic piece that often goes unacknowledged, along with the emotional piece, that quiet feeling that something is missing, which drugs and alcohol can temporarily fill in ways that get remembered.

The conversation also gets honest about what rehab programs often miss. Treating the substance abuse without addressing the underlying anxiety, depression, or other psychological struggles is one of the reasons so many people cycle in and out of treatment. The long-standing tension in 12-step communities around psychiatric medication comes up too, and how that's slowly shifting.

They close on something worth sitting with. The cultural normalization of gummies, edibles, and now psychedelics is convincing a lot of people that certain substances are simply not a problem. Two clinicians who've watched families fall apart over exactly that kind of thinking aren't so sure.

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