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We Not Me

We Not Me

By: Dan Hammond & Pia Lee
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Exploring how humans connect and get stuff done together, with Dan Hammond and Pia Lee from Squadify. We need groups of humans to help navigate the world of opportunities and challenges, but we don't always work together effectively. This podcast tackles questions such as "What makes a rockstar team?" "How can we work from anywhere?" "What part does connection play in today's world?" You'll also hear the thoughts and views of those who are running and leading teams across the world.© Squadify Economics Management Management & Leadership
Episodes
  • The human-centric business leader, with Ian Turner
    Jun 18 2026

    Ian Turner has spent over two decades as a Chief People Officer watching the same slow collision happen inside organisations: brilliant performers get promoted into leadership roles, never get developed as leaders, and quietly become — in Ian's phrase — "overpaid doers." This episode asks what it actually takes to be a human-centric business leader, why that capability is in shorter supply than it should be, and what the real commercial cost is when organisations let it drift.

    The conversation lands on a deceptively simple idea: sustainable performance comes from leaders who hold the commercial and the human in the same hand at the same time — not alternating between them, but integrating both as a single discipline. Ian reframes what that looks like in practice, from getting out of your furrow in the carpet to understanding that every tech transformation is actually a people transformation with a tech element.


    Key Themes & Takeaways

    • Leaders who succeed long-term care passionately about two things simultaneously: delivering results and the people delivering them — treating these as one system, not a trade-off.
    • Organisations have created a generation of "overpaid doers" — people promoted for technical excellence who were never equipped, trained, or expected to actually lead.
    • The "furrow in the carpet" is a powerful diagnostic: if your daily movement through an organisation never changes, your leadership reach probably doesn't either.
    • Attrition, stagnation, and cultural echo chambers are not people problems — they're the commercial consequences of ignoring the human side of performance.
    • Post-COVID, companies that genuinely cared about their people maintained flexible, human-aware cultures; those that did it out of necessity are now facing the cultural bill.
    • The most powerful thing a leader can offer isn't advice — it's belief. Coaching someone to their own solution builds both the answer and the person.
    • Every tech transformation is a people transformation with a tech element — and leaders who frame it the other way around will keep hitting the same wall.


    Three Reasons to Listen

    Listen if your organisation keeps hitting numbers in the short term but quietly haemorrhaging your best people — Ian names exactly why, and it's not what most senior leaders want to hear.

    Listen if you've ever caught yourself thinking that leadership is "on the side of the desk" — this conversation will reframe that as a strategic and commercial error, not just a personal development gap.

    Listen if you're trying to make the case internally that human-centric leadership isn't soft — Ian builds the business argument clearly, without ever making it fluffy.


    Notable Quotes

    "They don't become leaders because they're recruited into those more senior roles because they've been a great salesperson, a great product person, a great marketer — and they've not been recruited because they show true leadership traits."
    Ian Turner

    "Every transformation is a people transformation with a tech element. It's not a tech transformation with a people element."
    Ian Turner

    "One of the most powerful things you can offer another person isn't advice — it's belief."
    Ian Turner (referencing Jenny Rogers, Coaching Skills)


    Ian's bio
    Ian Turner, a Chief People Officer, talent strategist and leadership coach with over two decades of experience shaping people and culture across some of the UK's most recognised organisations. From leading transformation programmes and building high-performing teams to championing social mobility and developing future talent, Ian has built a reputation for combining commercial acumen with a genuinely human approach to leadership. He's passionate about helping people realise their potential and creating workplaces where both individuals and organisations can thrive.

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    34 mins
  • The irritating patterns of senior teams, with Joel Casse
    Jun 4 2026

    Episode Summary

    Joel Casse spent over two decades inside large global organisations — most recently as Nokia's Global Head of Leadership Development — watching senior teams up close. What he found wasn't a talent problem. It was a behaviour problem: packed agendas with no room for the team itself, leaders competing to showcase expertise rather than build on each other, and decisions perpetually kicked offline.

    The conversation explores why this happens — egos, function-first loyalty, a bias for action that keeps teams stuck above what Roger Harrison calls the "waterline" — and what actually shifts things. Joel's tool is the balcony move: stepping out of the discussion to name what he observes. One quiet observation ("I've counted eight 'let's take it offline' in 20 minutes") became a two-hour conversation about how that team made decisions. Slow to go fast.


    Key Themes & Takeaways

    • Most senior teams debate (I'm right, you're wrong) rather than dialogue (let's understand each other) — and almost never ask genuine questions
    • The waterline model: teams focus on task and content; relationships and process stay hidden until something breaks
    • The SPQA framework: Situation → Problem → Question → Answer. The mistake is jumping straight from problem to answer
    • "Let's take it offline" is a red flag — it means the conditions for real decisions don't exist in the room
    • Irritating behaviours go unchallenged because peers won't hold each other accountable and leaders see it as babysitting
    • The balcony move — stepping back to name what you observe — is the most underused act in senior team leadership
    • When senior leaders change, it trickles down: their direct reports start doing check-ins, calling out patterns, working the same way

    Three Reasons to Listen

    • Listen if your leadership team meetings feel busy but never quite land anywhere. Joel names exactly what's happening — and why the smartest people in the room are often the ones causing it.
    • Listen if you've ever sat in a meeting counting how many times someone said "let's take it offline." There's a two-hour conversation hiding in that habit.
    • Listen if you want one thing to do differently as a leader or coach. The balcony-and-dance move is simple, and Joel has watched it ripple from the C-suite all the way down.

    Notable Quotes

    "When a leader is doing 80% of the talking, there's a fair chance that the team isn't doing well. They're not learning." — Joel Casse


    "Teams tend to be a collection of people — not necessarily having a common goal with interdependency and a common fate. If you fail, well, that's your problem." — Joel Casse

    "Leadership is your main course. It hass become the side dish — or a tiny pot of condiment you don't even have to have." — Dan Hammond


    Joel's bio

    Joel Casse is an executive coach and leadership architect with over 20 years of experience developing leaders and teams in global, matrixed organisations. Based in Munich, he has spent the majority of his career at Nokia, where he coaches executive teams and directs high-potential programs. Before Nokia, he worked at Novartis. He has worked with CEOs, Presidents, and VPs and their leadership teams on topics ranging from succession discussions to strategic off-sites to cross-team collaborations. He has led company-wide leadership frameworks, overseen flagship executive programs, and guided multiple leaders to C-suite promotions. Joel also teaches at Duke CE and Emeritus Business School, delivering executive interventions for companies in retail, banking, insurance, and IT. He holds an ILM 7 Executive Coaching accreditation and co-authored the book “Leadership for a New World.”

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    39 mins
  • How to give the gift of feedback, with Katie Ceccarini
    May 21 2026

    🎧 Three reasons to listen

    • Make feedback less scary and more useful – learn why most feedback triggers defensiveness and how to avoid it
    • Get a practical framework you can use immediately – mindset, relationship, and delivery
    • Handle difficult conversations with confidence – be honest and direct without damaging trust

    Episode overview

    In this episode, Dan and Pia are joined by Katie O’Brien Ceccarini, leadership coach and author of Fearless Feedback, to tackle one of the most challenging aspects of leadership: feedback.

    They explore why feedback often creates fear and resistance—and how to reframe it as a constructive, human conversation.

    Katie shares her Fearless Feedback framework, focusing on mindset, trust, and practical delivery, helping leaders move from awkward, avoided conversations to clear, confident, and growth-oriented dialogue.

    Memorable moments

    • “No, I’m not.” – Katie’s honest story of being labelled defensive (while feeling embarrassed internally)
    • The finding that 90% of people don’t want to hear “Can I give you feedback?”
    • The “food in your teeth” analogy for why feedback should be timely
    • A powerful reframe: “Feedback without action is criticism.”
    • The shift from analysing the past to co-creating what happens next

    Practical takeaways

    • Start with mindset:
      Go in believing you are helping the person succeed
    • Ditch the word “feedback” in the opener:
      Lead with what’s in it for them
    • Use the three-part framework:
      • Mindset → why you’re saying it
      • Relationship → trust and safety
      • Delivery → clarity and structure
    • Make it a conversation, not a monologue:
      Ask questions and co-create next steps
    • Focus forward:
      Spend less time analysing what went wrong, more time on what to do next
    • Create accountability:
      Agree follow-ups and shared responsibility
    • Act quickly:
      Don’t wait—feedback loses value when delayed

    Katie's’s media recommendation

    • 📖 Still Human: How to Build Organizations Where Leaders and Teams Thrive with AI
      A timely exploration of how to maintain humanity, connection, and leadership impact in an AI-driven world

    Bio
    Katie O'Brien Ceccarini is the Founder of Endurance Management Coaching, a Certified Executive Coach, and author of Fearless Feedback: Everything Managers Have Never Been Taught About Feedback.


    At 22, she began managing her first team with no handbook, no roadmap — just botched conversations and stretched-thin moments every leader knows too well. That experience is exactly why she wrote this book: not to give theory, but to give managers what actually works.


    Over 20 years, she's managed, trained, and developed thousands of people — from scaling Customer Success at Yelp to leading Learning & Development at Opendoor. She's taught her Fearless Feedback Mastery course on Maven since 2022, earning a 4.8 out of 5 rating.


    Today she works with organizations like eBay, LinkedIn, and AllState to build high-performing teams with the power of feedback.


    Links

    • Fearless Feedback
    • Still human
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    38 mins
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