Episodes

  • The Cure for Blue Dot Fever
    May 28 2026

    ‘Blue dot fever’ happens when you look at a concert seating chart and see mostly unsold seats (blue dots). As the epidemic worsens with a flood of cancelled tours, our hosts explore archival live performances as a cure to blue dot fever. Join as they analyze style, scene, and technique in six recorded shows.

    • Patti LaBelle: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
    • Joni Mitchell: Both Sides Now
    • Whitney Houston: All the Man That I Need
    • Beyonce: Daddy Lessons
    • Michelle Williams: Say Yes
    • Bruce Hornsby: The Way It Is

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    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • But the Gag is the Gag’s Over: Inclusion TN & the Tennessee Titans [TEASER]
    May 25 2026

    The hosts are spilling the hottest tea over on Patreon. Now that their gag orders are lifted, the stories they share about the organizations that exploited them will have you shook. Join the Patreon to hear the full episode from the coffee shop where it all started, Frothy Monkey 12 South.

    • Join the Community on Patreon
    • Frothy Monkey


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    3 mins
  • Generational BEEF
    May 14 2026

    A Baby Boomer, Gen Xer, Millennial, and Gen Zer walk into a…ring. Well, you can guess how that goes. Join our hosts for deep dive into the second season of Netflix’s hit series, BEEF. Blake and Kashif examine character motivations, wealth inequality, the healthcare system and more. Later, an intergenerational panel takes on some of the themes explored in the show. Who is really to blame for our current economic and political situation? Are Gen Zers returning to a type of traditionalism usually associated with Boomers? Beyond the middle and side part divide, the generations try to find common ground.

    Panelists
    • Boomer: MAT
    • Gen X: Amy Dotson
    • Millennial: Kevin Garcia Instagram | Website
    • Gen Z: KeShawn Ivory Instagram | Dark Mattering
    • Dr. Jared Cooney Horvath Testimony on Gen Z
    • Wealth Distribution Statistics


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    1 hr and 26 mins
  • In the Way of Johnny Appleseed w/ Isaac Fitzgerald
    May 11 2026

    Isaac Fitzgerald, author of American Rambler: Walking the Trail of Johnny Appleseed (Penguin Random House), stops by the pod to talk about the historic figure of John Champan, Isaac’s own complex familial relationship with the outdoors, faith, and American legends. How did apples become a symbol of Americana? Bars and stadiums, and churches? Isaac’s first time getting ducked, a tradition as American as apple cider.

    • Isaac’s: Instagram | Website
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    Dirtbag, Massachusetts: A Confessional (2022)
    • Johnny Appleseed
    • The Epic Romance of Saeed Jones and Isaac Fitzgerald


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • DJ Afrosheen Thinks DJs are Sociologists
    Apr 30 2026

    On this episode of Who’s Gonna Be There?, Blake and Kashif sit down with DJ Afrosheen, one of the hottest DJs of the queer South, and a name you might recognize from Bonnaroo, SXSW, or opening for Jill Scott. The trio talk about Afrosheen’s journey from studying dance to curating the music for queer people to dance to, and Afrosheen’s commitment to ensuring that everyone (especially Black folks) feel safe in queer spaces. What makes a good DJ? What does it mean for ravers to ‘catch the spirit’? Has dance music gone gospel? Afrosheen joins the hosts for the game.

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    • DJ Afrosheen Socials: Instagram | Soundcloud | YouTube | TikTok
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    • MashUp Nation
    • Tramaine Hawkins
    • Albertina Walker


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • What Exactly is Armageddon?
    Apr 17 2026

    The US war with Iran brings Armageddon into public conversation, yet again. This time, with some US military leaders allegedly aiming to bring about this endtime battle, while others (Pete Hegseth) warn that Iran is the one desirous of a religious Armageddon. So, what exactly is Armageddon and where does it come from? In this episode, our hosts look at the history of apocalyptic thought, Armageddon, and surrounding ideas such as the Rapture, Great Tribulation, and millennialism. How have evangelical media depictions of these ideas contributed to our current geopolitical situation? A special endtime edition of the game.

    • Zoroastrianism
    • John Darby
    • Clarence Larkin
    The Shock Doctrine by Naomi Klein
    • Millennialism
    Left Behind Films
    A Thief in the Night
    The Rapture Short Film


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    1 hr and 42 mins
  • James Baldwin in Love w/ Nicholas Boggs
    Apr 2 2026

    Nicholas Boggs, author of the new James Baldwin biography, Baldwin: A Love Story (Farrar, Straus and Giroux), stops by the pod for a conversation on the platonic and romantic love life of the icon. How did Baldwin’s love for men, women, and people square with his love for Country? What James Baldwin did with all his longing. A look at euro-centric beauty standards and unusual paths to self-love. The importance of the archives, and remembering that your favorite bygone writer used toilets, too.

    • Nicholas Boggs Socials: Instagram
    Baldwin: A Love Story by Nicholas Boggs
    • 2018 Reissue of Little Man, Little Man by James Baldwin
    • Beauford Delaney
    • Yoran Cazac
    • Engin Cezzar
    • Lucien Happersberger
    • Bette Davis
    • Lisa Rinna


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    57 mins
  • Why Aren’t We Talking About Touch?
    Mar 20 2026

    Fun fact: kissing isn’t a universal human behavior, and is only exhibited by about 50% of humans, mostly in the industrialized parts of the world. In this special episode on touch, co-host Blake, a licensed massage therapist and educator, guides us through an exploration of physical touch. What actually happens in our bodies when we touch? Can touch make me more attractive? What’s the correlation between violent crime and touch? Beyond the pale of sexual vs non-sexual touch, and into new expansive language about this experience of healing, communication, and even revolution. A special cuddle edition of the game.

    The Ethics of Touch: The Hands-on Practitioner’s Guide to Creating a Professional, Safe, and Enduring Practice (3rd Edition) by Ben Benjamin and Cherie Sohnen-Moe
    Touch Matters by Michael Banissy
    Touch: The Science of Hand, Heart, and Mind by David J. Linden
    The Deepest Sense: A Cultural History of Touch by Constance Classen


    About the show:
    A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

    Instagram: @whosgonnabetherepod
    TikTok: @whosgonnabetherepod

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    1 hr and 39 mins